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My Experience at University of Phoenix

I had been wanting to get my college degree for some time now, but there always seemed to be something more important or demanding of my time and energy. 22 months ago, I finally embarked on the path to a lifelong dream: A college degree. Now, at 48 years of age, I completed my Associate program and plunged right into my bachelor program. My goal is a bachelor's degree by the time I reach my 50th birthday. So far, I’m on track.

November 2007 - Posts

  • Closet Procrastinator

    There are days, even weeks, during my class blocks, where it is more than difficult to stay motivated. Like today (and just about every Sunday).

     

    My course schedule currently has me taking two classes per block and each block lasts nine weeks. Each class has alternating weeks where one is discussion and a CheckPoint and the other is an assignment week. The assignment is typically due on Sundays. My academic counselor has helped me arrange the two opposing classes such that when one class is in discussion week, the other is in assignment week.

     

    If I plan well-enough ahead, I can have my weekend all to myself. This is rarely the case, however, because I seem to spend every waking hour on Sundays cranking out that last assignment. I am typically not a procrastinator…I don’t know why my course work makes me behave differently.

     

    Finding the perfect time management solution is not always easy. That is really hard for someone like me to say too. I’m often told that people admire my ability to juggle all of the many things that land on my desk at work at the same time or during the week. I am praised for my ability to multitask and somehow I manage to keep the household running fairly smoothly at home. So why is it that I can’t seem to apply the same to managing my weekly course work?

     

    Today, while procrastinating completion [actually starting] of my looming assignment due before midnight (I was talking to my sister—the one in Everett—on the phone) I realized why: Sometimes my assignments are on topics I care nothing about so I am not motivated to work on them. I can’t seem to find a starting place. Now that I think about it, I do that at work too. And at home. Yup…there is a pile of paperwork on my desk at home I am ignoring. There is a project at work I keep putting off. There are at least two boxes of stuff taking up space in my closet that I intend to someday donate to charity.

     

    Today I realized I am a procrastinator. Me. This must stop! First thing tomorrow, I am going to do something about it. Right now, I have homework.

     

  • Thanksgiving

    During a time when most people gather their family and friends to eat lavish meals, watch football, and contemplate tomorrow’s possibilities (let’s see…do I really want to brave the madness that certainly will be at the mall? …and…did someone save the turkey carcass so I can make soup that nobody will want to eat because they’re bored with turkey already?), some of us (me) are sitting at the computer because not only one, but two assignments are due by midnight Arizona time. Yes, there are no holidays in online learning except for the winter break at Christmas time.

     

    Ok, I have to admit that one of my instructors will allow today’s assignments to be turned in tomorrow without penalty. The other instructor, however, was not so generous. In fact, she posted to the class a reminder that there was a discussion question due today and that we should all try to turn it in early so that we could enjoy the holiday. Enjoy the holiday? What holiday? It is no holiday when there is work to be done!!

     

    We are going to a cousin’s home in Tracy today. We were told that dinner was at 3:00 PM, but we thought we’d go a little early so we’d have time to visit and still be able to head home at a decent hour. After all, we can’t leave the dog locked up in the bathroom for very long or he will destroy what’s left of the paneling. So, we planned to get up early so I could work on and submit my assignment(s) due today and leave around Noon. At 9:30 AM, they called to tell us to remember to bring blankets and jackets because we were going to be eating outside. Outside??? It is going to be mid-forties in Tracy today considering the wind-chill factor. I think we’ll just show up on time and leave early. Outside. Puh-leeze. I’m thankful that I have homework.

     

  • About Me

    I was born in Seattle, Washington, mid-August nearly a half century ago. I have three siblings; two older and one younger. My brother is the eldest and lives in Kentucky. Next is a sister in Everett, Washington. My younger sister lives on Vashon Island in Washington. I have four nieces aged 11, 9, 9, and 5 (the middle girls are identical twins). My father and his wife, as well as my two sisters and their families, still live in the Seattle area and my mother lives in Oregon. I moved to California right out of high school, following my mom who had just remarried and her (then) husband to San Jose. My mother later moved to Oregon, and although I have lived in several Bay Area cities over the years, I am once again in San Jose, with my husband, Ted; my stepson, Brandon; our two domestic-short-hair cats, Casey and Coal, and our Labrador Retriever puppy, Lucky.

     

    Although we have been together for nearly ten years, and have known each other for more than 15, my husband and I married as recently as 2005. Both of us had been married before, and between the two of us have five children; Priscilla, Eddie, Tiffany, Trinity, and Brandon. Priscilla is married with a daughter of her own. Our granddaughter, Julie-Anne is nearly 5 years old, and started pre-school on the same day her “Gamma” started college! Priscilla and her husband are both in the United States Air Force and stationed at Hickam AFB in Honolulu, Hawaii, on the island of Oahu. Eddie attends San Jose State University, majoring in Radio, Television and Film. Tiffany is nearing her 17th birthday and Trinity is 12 and in the 7th grade. Brandon, the only one who still lives with us, is in the 6th grade. He is very much into sports and a more rambunctious adolescent I have never known.

     

    I work full-time at a laser manufacturing company in Santa Clara, California, where I have been employed since 1982. I am currently an Executive Assistant, although I have held numerous positions, from Secretary to Administrative Services Manager, over the years. Such tenure is not very common in Silicon Valley, and I believe my employer recognizes and values my loyalty and work ethic. I support several high-level vice presidents, and one corporate officer.

     

    For fun, I like to relax and hang out with my family and friends; however, there was a time when I spent most of my spare time involved somehow with singing. I love to sing. I sang in two different high school groups, auditioned for and accepted into the Washington All-State High School Concert Choir—quite an accomplishment since only 400 students from the entire state of Washington were accepted. I was one of only two from the city of Seattle; both from my high school. I sang in a community musical theatre group when I was a young girl and teenager, and I sang in a community chorale later as an adult. And, and I sang in the car. I never sing in the shower though, strange as it may seem. From 1991-1997, I sang backup vocals for a local singer-songwriter in a bar and grill once or twice a week.

     

    I have wanted to get my college degree for some time now, but there always seemed to be something more important or demanding of my time and energy. Whether it was the chaos of all or most of the children living with us at the same time, or the demand of extracurricular school activities for them, or the stress of making ends meet in an economy slump, the dream of higher education always seemed to remain on the back burner.

     

    Then last year just as my son was starting his freshman year of college, I realized the time had come to jump in with both feet. My goal is a bachelor degree by the time I reach my 50th birthday. So far, I am on track.

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