Melisa Dotson
Although I married at a young age, I fully intended to gain a higher education for myself. It is very easy to fall into the mindset that everyone else comes first, and I am very guilty of such thoughts. My duties as a military wife caused many barriers, but I was able to complete a one-year training course at a dental clinic on a military installation. I worked in various dental offices as my husband was transferred from one location to another.
After working in the field of dentistry for several years, I accepted a position as a marketing assistant. I have learned a great deal while on the job, but do I recognize that there are many areas for improvement. This opportunity sparked an interest in business and marketing, and I have a renewed and even stronger desire to gain a college degree. I no longer want to attend a job interview and be noted as not having a college degree.
The timing of gaining a higher education right now is perfect for me. My son has graduated from high school and is a LCPL in the United States Marine Corps. My two daughters are currently in high school. The time commitment required of mothers who have young children is no longer an obstacle for me. My children are very excited about my decision and think it is the best thing that I could do for myself. They do not have the full understanding of what this means for them though. This will make an enormous impact on my children. I want them to realize that goals can be achieved no matter how long they are delayed. Gaining a higher education will also allow me the opportunity to be a better employee and offer more to my company. My goal is to secure my college degree and be in a better financial and flexible position for myself and my family.
Online education is the right decision for me. I am not available for classroom activities due to my current responsibilities to my family and my job. I am not in a position to leave my job and lose my income. Such a decision would be financially devastating to my family.
My younger daughter asked me recently if she could be a gourmet chef. My obvious reply to her is that she can be whatever she wants to be. Her desire is to attend culinary school and open her own restaurant. When she asked if I would be there to help her, I realized...here is another reason why a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business is exactly what I need. She is already cooking up her own plans at such a young age. I am ready to turn my goals into reality and have the knowledge and expertise I will need many years down the road when my daughter is prepared to start her restaurant. If she changes the plans for her future, that will be fine. My goals will have been achieved, and I will be ready to set, meet or exceed whatever goals I have for my future.